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Not everything is an attack on you
Why we need to stop instantly assuming someone is out to get us
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Please shut up about how busy you are
It's not helping anyone and we're sick of hearing it
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All my fears came true last Friday
(including the biggest, lifelong fears I've held since I was 6)
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Your indignation over others' privilege isn't helping anyone
not least yourself
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I have thoughts...
and not everyone will like them
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A love note from a recovering perfectionist
thoughts on how 'perfectionism' manifests on a moment-to-moment basis
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The most unglamorous poo
In one of the world's most glamorous places
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Lessons from flu season
Mainly relearning how to rest without guilt
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Take a full week off every month
How making time to regularly 'do nothing' amplifies the rest of your 'doing' life
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The relief of being ordinary
Why I'm releasing big goals for unremarkable right-here moments
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Sacred pausing
Appreciating the holiness of rest
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Smells like teen spirit
Confronting my teenage angst well into my 40s...
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Humans are the only animals that willfully deny ourselves rest
A guide for being more like this pig...
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I am not here for the pretty girls
Here's what I *am* here for....
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a very messy life
a very messy life
meeting the messy challenges of everyday life - the expectations, pressures, anxieties, imperfections, mistakes, failures, and anything that leaves us feeling just that little bit shit

a very messy life

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